“Erotic Travel Essentials”

“As the foamy lather showered over my body, I danced on the side of the pool. I danced for my man. I danced for my girlfriend. I danced for the happy crowd of people all playing in the bubble-filled water in front of me. But most of all, I danced for the sheer joy it gave me. “Oh, did I mention… I was completely naked.

“It was such a beautiful afternoon at my favorite erotic resort. The air was warm, the sky was a gorgeous blue, and the mounds of bubbles sparkled in the shining sun. As I danced, I could see the iridescent pearls shining all over my naked body. I love a good foam party, and sharing it with friends and lovers makes it all even better.”

Have you ever wanted to travel to places like that? Places where naked foam-filled pool parties happen every week? Places where sexually permissive couples go to indulge their desires with their partner, or with other like-minded couples?

Hi, I’m Josie. And that’s where I go when I travel.

“As I stepped down into the shallow water, my lover was right there offering his hand to steady me, while I walked over to a raised tile bench near the swim-up bar. I sat up on the back of the bench and opened my legs to him. A second later, he was on his knees and pushing the foamy fun away from my pretty kitty.” 

These story excerpts are from my real-life erotic memoir, Seductions of a Good Girl©  where I invite you to come along with me to a place like that. A place where you can spend clothing-optional days in sunshine, shimmering pools, and at swim-up bars. And indulge in sexy nights filled with dining, dancing, and daring erotic encounters. A place called Passions.

Now, if your curiosity is anything like mine, you probably want to know more. Right? So, here are a few Essentials you’ll ‘need to know before you go’.

First, things to be sure to take with you:

✔ A friendly and relaxed state of mind to be honest, be open, and be ready for new experiences.

✔ The absolute understanding that in places like this two basic rules apply;

1. NO means no. (Even if it is a polite “No, thank you.”) and…

     2. The ladies are in control. (Including who they are with, and what they do.)

✔ Bring plenty of sunscreen. (Especially for ‘sensitive’ areas.)

✔ A comfy pair of sandals, for casual meals and days around the pool deck.

✔ A sun hat, and a spare ball cap.

✔ A thermal mug or tumbler, to save trips to the bar.

Now, just because you’re going to a “clothing optional” resort, doesn’t mean you’ll be naked all the time.

✔ Ladies - A couple of enticing cover-ups or sarongs; for a casual breakfast, lunch, or a stop at the Spa

✔ A few pairs of stylish sunglasses. (Extras are important when you lose yours, like I did, at the Jacuzzi bar during a round of Body Shots.)

✔ Plenty of sexy, and revealing nighttime outfits for dinners and theme parties. (And remember, if you’d wear it back home, leave it there. It’s not sexy enough for where you’re going.)

✔ Some eye-catching body jewelry can be a fun way to ‘dress up’ a nude afternoon.

✔ And, ladies, just in case--one scandalous swimsuit that you would never wear back home. (FYI, mine is a mesh thong.)

✔ Gentlemen – A couple of ‘resort casual’ sport shirts and shorts. (So you don’t show up at breakfast in a rumpled T-shirt and baggy cargo shorts.)

✔ A few new, trendy shirts and nice pants for evenings. (Trust me, it will be more attractive to the ladies.)

✔ If you enjoy sex toys (like a waterproof vibrator) feel free to take them along in your checked luggage. (Remember, body piercings, cock rings, nipple clamps, and metallic butt plugs can be a challenge when going through TSA.)

✔. And don’t forget the “Intimate Essentials” too; Ladies - UTI prevention, SPF ‘nip gloss’, hair clips, water-proof Lube etc.; Gentlemen - condoms, breath mints, “Couples Cards”, tip money, and of course, hangover treatment.

Next, let’s check for the things we want to be sure NOT to take with us:

✔ Inhibitions and fear. (These just get in the way of a good time.)

✔. Things that remind you of work or kids. (These will make you limp, or dry, quicker than anything.)

✔ Judgment of any kind of yourself or other people. (Remember, when you leave your clothes behind, you also leave behind your status symbols and pretensions. When we’re all nude, we’re all equal.)

A word to the wise…be sure that you and your partner are ‘on the same page’ when it comes to expectations and erotic boundaries. Because when things start to happen you really don’t want to get caught with a ‘misunderstanding’ that can derail your whole experience.

Oh, just between you and me, it’s important to remember that every trip is different. And each one is what YOU make of it. As I’ve learned on so many erotic travels, if you wait for someone else to get the party started, you’ll be waiting a l-o-o-ng time. So, start your own party, and others will follow.

Like my girlfriend, Kody, did back at the Foam Party.

“Kody and I now sat side-by-side just above the waterline, madly making out. Our hands wandered all over each other’s slick and shiny breasts. Our mouths opened wide to fondle each other’s lips and tongues. I felt a man’s face now on my inner thighs as he moved up to my other set of wet lips. Was it Kody’s husband, Alex? Was it my Luke? Or was it someone else? I wasn’t sure. But this was no time to ‘break the spell’.”

Find out more about everything else I did in Seductions of a Good Girl©, available on Amazon, or on my website at  www.josettearmand.com.